A Reminder of Who Is Driving

Had an epiphany while I was driving to the new house this morning. I was feeling a mixture of distraction and dread and dissociation, a feeling I often feel driving…

Finding Joy Again: Part 1

I’ve been thinking a lot about joy and how it fits into my life. I’m definitely not a joyful person and I struggle finding joy in my everyday life. I’m…

Boy, so confusing

A few weeks ago, I was scrolling through Grindr like the dumb gay I am. I was feeling pretty lonely, which is the worst time to be on Grindr (and…